Empower | Inspire | TeachHELPING COUPLES BUILD A HAPPY, HEALTHY, AND GODLY MARRIAGE
We are Drs. Femi and Bola, counselors, authors, and retreat hosts serving married and soon-to-be-married couples worldwide.
Who we areEMPOWER · INSPIRE · TEACH
A husband-and-wife team of relationship experts, together since 2008, devoted to helping couples deepen connection and fulfil their purpose together.
Faith-grounded, evidence-based counseling
Luxury retreats that draw couples from around the world
Teaching heard by more than five million people
Who We HelpWHAT BRINGS YOU HERE TODAY?
Pick a sentence that sounds like your interest, and we’ll take you straight there.
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OUR MARRIAGE NEEDS HELP
Confidential counseling for communication, trust, intimacy, and repair.
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WE'RE ENGAGED
Premarital counseling to prepare for a strong, healthy & Godly marriage.
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I'M NAVIGATING THIS ON MY OWN
Individual counseling, healing, and relationship education, married or not.
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WE WANT TO GET AWAY TOGETHER
Five days oceanfront at the Luxury Couples Retreat 2027 in Aruba.
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WE WANT YOU TO SPEAK
Keynotes and workshops for churches, conferences, and companies.
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I'M JUST EXPLORING
Free e-book, video teaching and photos from past retreats.
TestimonialsCOUPLES IN THEIR OWN WORDS
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“We arrived barely speaking. We flew home holding hands and planning our next ten years.”
MARCUS & DEE · RETREAT 2025
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“Six counseling sessions undid six years of silence. They gave us language for things we could never name.”
TOLU & ADE · COUNSELING CLIENTS
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“Drs. Femi and Bola held our conference audience of 800 completely still. Practical, funny, deeply true.”
PASTOR R. WHITFIELD · SPEAKING HOST
Upcoming · June 24–28, 20274TH ANNUAL LUXURY COUPLES RETREAT, ARUBA
Five oceanfront days of daily sessions, sunset romance, and spiritual renewal, an adults-only escape designed to be an intentional investment in your marriage, not just a vacation.
ADULTS-ONLY
Limited spots - couples are already reserving for 2027.
Our storyWE DON'T JUST TEACH MARRIAGE. WE LIVE THE WORK OF BUILDING ONE.
We have been building life together since 2008. Along the way, we have learned that loving someone and knowing how to build a healthy relationship with them are not always the same thing. Strong marriages require faith, friendship, communication, humility, intentionality, and the willingness to keep growing.
That conviction sits at the heart of everything we do. Through counseling, teaching, retreats, books, and honest conversations about marriage, we help couples move beyond simply staying together toward intentionally building a relationship they both love being in.
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