Our storyLOVE, FAITH, AND THE WORK OF STAYING TOGETHER
We met as two people building demanding careers and discovered that the marriage we wanted would have to be built on purpose. Twelve years, two children and thousands of couples later, that is still the work: teaching what nobody taught us.
Meet Dr. Femi
Author · Counselor · TEDx SpeakerChristian counselor for adults, families, marriages, and children.
Author of the #1 international bestseller, The Five Pillars of Relationship Equity.
TEDx speaker with more than five million views; television host and UN Representative.
Founder of National Relationship Equity Day.
Meet Dr. Bola
Engineer · Entrepreneur · AdvocateA career built across IT and engineering leadership, now applied to relationships.
Passionate about empowering girls and women in leadership and ethics.
Co-host of every couples retreat and the Real-Lationship Series.
Featured inWHERE OUR WORK HAS BEEN SEEN
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“Drs. Femi and Bola held our conference audience of 800 completely still. Practical, funny, deeply true.”
PASTOR R. WHITFIELD · SPEAKING HOST
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“Newlyweds when we attended — the tools we learned are still the backbone of how we argue and repair.”
JORDAN & KAYCEE · RETREAT 2024
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“Twenty-two years married and we still learned something new every single session.”
BEN & ALICIA · RETREAT 2023
Awards & credentialsCREDIBILITY YOU CAN CHECK
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National Relationship Expert Icon Award
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Ph.D., Christian Counseling
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United Nations Representative
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#1 International Bestselling Author
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Founder, National Relationship Equity Day
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M.Sc., Engineering & IT Leadership
Our beliefsWHAT WE BUILD ON
“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
Psalm 127:1 (NIV)Marriage is a covenant, not a contract — it deserves intention and skill.
Faith and evidence belong together in the counseling room.
Equity, honor, and partnership are the foundation of a thriving home.
Every couple can grow, whatever season they are in right now.
WORK WITH US
Counseling, coaching, or a speaking invitation, book a time on our live calendar.
