Our story

LOVE, FAITH, AND THE WORK OF STAYING TOGETHER

We met in college as two young people with big dreams, focused on building our careers and creating a successful future. Along the way, we realized that the marriage we desired would never happen by accident. It had to be built intentionally, one choice at a time.

Today, after more than twelve years of marriage, raising two incredible children, and having the privilege of helping thousands of couples strengthen their relationships, our mission remains the same: to teach the timeless principles and practical tools we wish someone had taught us. We are passionate about equipping individuals, couples, and families to build healthy and thriving relationships that last for generations.

13+ yrs
Married
4,000+
Couples Served
4
Annual Retreats Hosted
250+
Speaking Engagements
5M+
TEDx Talk Views
#1
International Bestseller
Dr. Femi Ogunjinmi

MEET Dr. FEMI OGUNJINMI

Relationship Expert · Christian Counselor · Author · Speaker

  • Christian counselor for adults, families, marriages, and children.

  • Author of the #1 international bestseller, The Five Pillars of Relationship Equity.

  • TEDx speaker with more than five million views; television host and former UN Representative.

  • Founder of National Relationship Equity Day and an active voice in media and public speaking.

"Dr. Femi's work centers on helping individuals and couples understand how equity, emotional awareness, communication, and intentional investment shape healthy relationships."

MEET Dr. BOLA OGUNJINMI

Engineer · Marriage Counselor · Relationship Advocate · Speaker

  • Ph.D. in Engineering and Leadership, with a career built across professional leadership and entrepreneurship.

  • Marriage counselor and relationship advocate, passionate about mentoring and empowering girls and women.

  • Co-host of the Luxury Couples Retreat and the Real-Lationship Series.

  • Active in marriage ministry and public speaking.

"Dr. Bola brings a practical, systems-oriented perspective to relationships, helping couples understand that healthy marriages are strengthened by intentional habits, clear communication, shared values, and consistent investment."

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WHERE OUR WORK HAS BEEN SEEN

  • “Drs. Femi and Bola held our conference audience of 800 completely still. Practical, funny, deeply true.”

    PASTOR R. WHITFIELD · SPEAKING HOST

  • “Newlyweds when we attended, the tools we learned are still the backbone of how we argue and repair.”

    JORDAN & KAYCEE · RETREAT 2025

  • “Twenty-two years married and we still learned something new every single session.”

    BEN & ALICIA · RETREAT 2024

Awards & credentials

CREDIBILITY YOU CAN CHECK

  • National Relationship Expert Icon Award

  • Ph.D., Christian Counseling

  • United Nations Representative

  • #1 International Bestselling Author

  • Founder, National Relationship Equity Day

  • M.Sc., Engineering & IT Leadership

Our beliefs

WHAT WE BUILD ON

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”

Psalm 127:1 (NIV)

  • Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. It deserves intention and skill.

  • Faith and relationship skills belong together.

  • Equity, honor, and partnership are foundations of a thriving home.

  • Every couple can grow, whatever season they are in right now.

  • Healthy marriages require healthy individuals.

  • Intimacy is more than physical.

  • Your marriage can continue growing.

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